Milka on being Monica in `Deception’

What is your current state of mind?

My mind is in high gear as I look forward to making a perfect decision after `Deception’.

What do you consider the most overrated virtue?

Some people overrate the monetary achievements of actors thinking we have a lot. When we are invited to charity and fundraising drives, they think it should be automatic for us to contribute.

On what occasion do you lie?

I strive to come out clean at any time.

What do you most dislike about your appearance?

I used to think I had big cheeks until I discovered how I am perfectly made.

Which living person do you most despise?

Anyone who looks down on others.

What is the quality you most like in a man?

Caring, loving, and being available at all times

What is the quality you most like in a woman?

Humble, clean, God-fearing and one who prays for her husband is a perfect mix of a woman.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?

Oh my God!

What or who is the greatest love of your life?

My father; Major Sam Ngobi. His hard work inspires me. But in future it will have to change to my husband and children.

When and where were you happiest?

It happened on 1^st January 2013. Previously, I would celebrate the New Year in bars and clubs but I was lured into going for a worship night on the same day in 2013. I observed how people yearn for God’s mercy and witnessed many people get healed. Since then, I yearn to be in God’s presence everyday and have never looked back.

Which talent would you most like to have?

I would love to be a good radio presenter or film director.

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

If I could learn to act there and then when I decide to take on something.

What do you consider your greatest achievement?

I value the respect I have gained from acting. Sometimes I value myself less yet people accord me great respect.

If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?

A more successful and professional actress.

Where would you most like to live?

Ghana, Nigeria or any other country in West Africa; their filming industry is growing so fast. For instance Elvis in `Deception’ would be a very big beneficiary.

What is your most treasured possession?

My voice projection; it is so commanding and has worked well for me.

What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?

For a woman, it is to deliver in the absence of a caretaker. It is also traumatising  if a woman never conceives.

What is your favorite occupation?

Acting gives me fulfillment.

What do you most value in your friends?

Shared character and knowledge of God.

Who are your favorite writers?

Mwangi Lucy describes the realities of life.

Who is your hero of fiction?

Tara Perry is a star of fiction. She carries you along in her projects.

Which historical figure do you most identify with?

Job in the Bible is so extraordinary; he proved his true love for God even when he lost everything including his children.

Who are your heroes in real life?

My mother and father for nurturing me and Judith Babirye is one person who has made it through thick and thin.

What are your favorite names?

Takyuka and Talemwa because of their meaning; God doesn’t change and never fails.

What is it that you most dislike?

Being left alone.

What is your greatest regret?

I wish I had studied drama first time at the university. I may have the talent and everything else but sometimes I need the papers to show commitment and professionalism.

How would you like to die?

Silently after a short illness or even a shock.

What is your motto?

Character, chance, and choice are key to success.