The Independent Uganda: You get the Truth we Pay the Price
What is your current state of mind?
I am gaining peace.
What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
We have buried our heads in the sand thinking that young people are not having sexual relations and that things are moving on well which is untrue. The biggest cause of HIV is through having multiple sexual relations. We need to do a lot more in helping young people move out of such unfaithful relations but also to push them to test.
What does being powerful mean to you?
Powerful people are those who wish others well and keep their word. Power comes with the ability to know that life starts with you and practicing your calling in life.
On what occasion do you lie?
I have been forced to be true to myself.
What do you most dislike about your appearance?
I am not comfortable with my current weight although I am sacred of losing it for what people may relate it to.
Which living person do you most despise?
I despise unfaithful partners who just can’t drop some and move on with one.
What is the quality you most like in a man?
Truthfulness to self and others is all it takes.
What is the quality you most like in a woman?
Sticking to one partner and pressing on for those around you.
When and where were you happiest?
The day I graduated with my first degree was a moment of feeling accomplished. My happiness is derived from every moment I achieve. It was also a happy moment being sworn in as the Guild Speaker of MUBS in 2015. My life has been rising up every day and I am thankful to God for it
Which talent would you most like to have?
I am an all round person because I can sing, dance, play basketball and others but I would love to play chess because it keeps the mind busy thinking of solutions.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I am okay with myself.
Where would you most like to live?
I fear what will happen to me if I am not in Uganda. And with my condition, I am limited on what life will be outside Uganda.
What is your most treasured possession?
When I get myself to doing something, I devote my time to see that it comes to pass so I treasure such levels of commitment.
What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
The fact that you can’t open up to anybody about the pain you are going through. There are people out there who can’t trust anyone with their suffering and there is no lower moment than that.
What do you most value in your friends?
Being open minded.
Who are your favourite writers?
My new status has pushed me to read more; especially about HIV. I don’t stick to one writer but I strive to read a lot so I can keep healthy.
Who is your hero of fiction?
I enjoy watching detective movies; especially when it comes to finding a solution but I am not a fixed star.
Which historical figure do you most identify with?
My father Amos Okwangi may not have been known but even on his death bed, he was still hoping to live longer for his children. He kept us hopeful in life and every time, I remember moments with him, I am encouraged to push harder. I also give credit to Philly Bongole Lutaaya for what he did in the fight against HIV.
Who are your heroes in real life?
A person who never wishes to infect another is my hero unlike before when I used to admire vocal and influential political leaders.
What is your greatest regret?
I regret having loved so deeply to the extent of walking back and forth for someone only to end in betrayal.
How would you like to die?
A natural and peaceful death is better; at least I want people to prepare for my death.
What is your motto?
Go girl.
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